What looks like failure to superficial outside eyes, may be unimaginable personal inner success. Overcoming insurmountable obstacles and learning treasure chests of knowledge and wisdom may not leave you surrounded by all the worlds trappings of fame and fortune. No one really strives to go down the hard roads, alone, facing our own judgements of ourselves, letting go. and finding our way to what matters most, love and kindness. So nevermind the superficial judgements, there is no love there. Those are not the people who value what you have gone through, how far you have come and how much you’ve learned.